Rambling thoughts

I had a thought today... People tend to do things that may seem like nothing to them but are actually are hurtful to those they do to. And you cannot really confront these people, because even you yourself may not be sure if you are oversensitive yourself. I think we can try to take it in because you are unsure of yourself and even perhaps get into a conflict perhaps over something as trivial as u being oversensitive. Because when you are in a conflict, you do not really think, you are more likely to be venting. And when you vent, you tend to say things you may not want to say and cannot take back. That's why the thin line between frank and hurting is really thin, I must be careful and so should certain people.

Another thought is that when you are in a group of people, I realise that certain people do get left out of the conversation. Maybe they do not feel like talking but at least as friends we should make an attempt in inviting him/her into the conversation. Give him an opening, rather than him interrupting accidentally just to try to get into the conversation.

My final thought is that when we are in a bad mood or something, we should not vent it out on others by treating them badly. Of course you have the right to be this way because perhaps something happened which affected you negatively and you have the reflex to be emotionally cold and angry to those around you. Of course they are your loved ones and friends and they will understand you. But think about it, it is rather unfair to them. If you are feeling bad because of something someone said, you perhaps will feel bad, but don't treat your friends in a way that is affected by perhaps your anger because he/she was not the one who hurt you.

Sponges are good at absorbing but if you squeeze them harder, it will let it all out. Do not unleash it.

People who take shit are in other terms, cleaning. They are trying to keep the enviroment clean. What do you have to say about the people who give shit?

Sleeping now.